Like condom use, a barrier to lubricant use can be perceptions about application. These perceptions tend to be amplified in new relationships and fade over time. Do you feel awkward reaching for any applying lube? Does your partner squirt the whole bottle on you, turning a romantic session into a slip n slide horror scene? Getting all hot and bothered but your toes curl at the feeling a cold lube? Whatever the reason- we are here to help you elevate your experience to new heights of pleasure with grace and ease.
TYPES OF PERSONAL LUBRICANTS
Before diving into the art of application, let’s get to know our slick friends better. There are three main types of personal lubricants, each with its unique properties:
Water-Based Lubricants: The Versatile Performers
- Characteristics: Non-staining, easy to clean, compatible with all condoms and toys.
- Best For: A versatile choice, perfect for a wide range of activities.
- Science Speaks: Water-based lubricants have the magical ability to mimic natural lubrication, making them a go-to for those seeking a more natural feel.
Silicone-Based Lubricants: The Enduring Enthusiasts
- Characteristics: Long-lasting, waterproof, and silky smooth.
- Best For: Water play and extended sessions, thanks to their persistence.
- Science Speaks: Silicone molecules are larger and create a barrier on the skin, providing a longer-lasting experience.
Oil-Based Lubricants: The Luxurious Contenders
- Characteristics: Deeply moisturizing, ideal for massages, but not condom-friendly.
- Best For: Intimate massages and skin-on-skin contact.
- Science Speaks: Oil-based lubes are great for skin hydration but can break down latex, so beware when using with certain barriers.
TURN UP THE HEAT
Adding warmth to your lubricant isn’t just about elevating the temperature; it’s about enhancing the entire experience with a touch of cozy comfort. If it tickles your fancy, there are warming lubricants specially formulated to bring on the heat. Otherwise, here’s how to safely warm up your lubricant for a toasty, tantalizing treat:
1. Hands-On Approach: The Body Heat Method
- How-To: Simply place a dollop of lubricant in your hands and rub them together. Your body heat will gently warm the lube. It’s like creating a little campfire of comfort in your palms!
- Another tip is to warm up your hands before putting the lube in your hands. Rub them together or place them in front of a heat source.
2. Warm Water Bath: The Spa Experience
- How-To: Seal your lubricant bottle in a waterproof bag and submerge it in warm water for a few minutes. It’s like giving your lube a mini hot tub party! This is usually not practical for spontaneous moments, but it can be accomplished if you’re incorporating water play or prepping a romantic evening ahead.
- You can also use your sink as a water bath, but be sure not to just put the lube bottle itself in there. Sinks harbor a lot of germs, so putting the bottle in a plastic bag is a more hygienic approach (you can throw away the bag).
3. Lubricant Warmers: The High-Tech Solution
- How-To: Invest in a lubricant warmer. These gadgets are designed specifically for this purpose and ensure a safe, consistent temperature. It’s like having a little personal heater for your lube! Bonus – these sexy little appliances can also be used to warm other products, like massage oils, hand and body lotions, and more!
- We have even used baby formula/food warmers to warm up lubes. Just be careful to check the container compatibility, and use one that can warm the lubricant in a separate container to avoid cross-contamination.
4. Microwave Magic: Quick and Careful
- How-To: If your lubricant is microwave-safe (check the label!), heat it in short bursts of 5-10 seconds, stirring in between. It’s like a science experiment, but the result is so much more delightful! BUT … please check the temperature before applying, preferably on a sensitive area like your forearm or wrist.
Safety First: The Warm Warnings
- Check the Label: Not all lubricants are suitable for heating. When in doubt, stick to body heat or warm water methods.
- Test the Temperature: Always test on your wrist first to avoid discomfort.
- Avoid Direct Heat: Never place lubricant directly on a heating device like a stove.
Warming your lubricant can transform an ordinary experience into a luxurious one, akin to slipping into a warm bath or snuggling under a cozy blanket. It adds a layer of sensory pleasure, making every touch feel more intimate and connected. So go ahead, turn up the heat and let the warm waves of bliss take you on a delightful journey! 🌡️💗
THE ART OF APPLICATIONS: CREATIVE AND EFFECTIVE TECHNIQUES
1. The Hand-Painted Masterpiece
- Method: Pour a small amount of lubricant onto your palm and use your fingers to paint it onto the desired areas. It’s like being an artist, but the canvas is a lot more fun!
2. The Temperature Tease
- Method: Warm the lubricant in your hands or cool it in the fridge for a surprising temperature play. It’s like a meteorological experiment but a lot more intimate!
3. The Mystery Trail
- Method: Apply the lubricant in a trail leading to the areas you want to focus on. It’s like leaving a trail of breadcrumbs, but Hansel and Gretel never had this much fun.
4. The Direct Approach
- Method: Apply directly from the bottle for a no-mess, precise application. It’s like using a GPS, guiding you exactly where you need to go.
5. The Mix and Match
- Method: Combine different types of lubricants for varied sensations. Mix water-based and silicone-based for a custom concoction. It’s like being a chemist, but the results are a lot more… personal.
SPEED BUMPS: QUICK SOLUTIONS WHEN YOU RUN OUT OF LUBE
Caught in a slippery situation without lubricant? No need to fret! Here are some quick and safe alternatives:
1. Aloe Vera Gel: A natural and skin-friendly option, especially if you have a plant at home.
2. Coconut Oil: Perfect for non-latex activities, it’s skin-safe and readily available. Just don’t dip your hands in the container. Use an applicator, whether it’s a kitchen spoon or something designed for this specific purpose.
3. DIY Mix: A simple blend of 1 cup water and 4 teaspoons cornstarch, heated until thick.
4. Plain Yogurt: For a natural and gentle alternative (make sure it’s unflavored and unsweetened).
A Note of Caution:
- Avoid Anything Irritating: No soaps, shampoos, or lotions with fragrances. No petroleum jelly or baby oil!
- Check for Allergies: Especially with kitchen items.
- Condom Compatibility: Oil-based home remedies can degrade latex.
Remember, these are temporary solutions. For the best experience, stock up on your favorite lube next time!
WRAPPING IT UP
Navigating the world of personal lubricants is a journey filled with discovery and delight. Whether you’re a seasoned connoisseur or a curious newbie, there’s always something new to explore in this slippery science. Embrace the art of application and transform your experience into a masterpiece of pleasure and comfort. Stay slick, stay curious, and most importantly, have fun!